Friday, September 27, 2013

The Chicken Soup


Since living in this city, evenings are usually the time when I am out strolling around streets trying to hunt down new places to shop for grocery or something entertaining to pass the rest of my time with.  Yesterday on my walk, I was window shopping at a gift store. Outside this place, I happened to see this young boy, who must be 6-7 years of age, standing at a corner sipping water from a bottle hanging around his neck. I guessed he had just finished his school as he was wearing a school uniform and had a small Chota Bheem featured school bag. He was fair, chubby and cute, like one of those kids you see in posters and wallpapers. He looked like an extra pampered, lazy and fatso kid, who did nothing but watch CN and eat as much as junk available, in his free time.
I guess he noticed me observing him, when I walked out of the store he came towards me and with a sweet voice asked me if I could tell him the directions to the Chicken Soup. At first I thought I heard wrong, and I asked him where he wanted to go. He again muttered Chicken Soup or something. With this I replied with a confused “What?” Annoyed by my reaction, he shouted in an unbearable decibel limit, “Buddhu, you not know Chicken Soup.”

I have heard a lot of weird and fancy area and road names in this city, but Chicken Soup sure did not sound like the name of any area. I had no idea what this endearing little devil exactly wanted. This time I asked him the typical questions one can ask a small kid standing alone on a busy street,
“Where do you want to go, Beta? And where is your Mom? What is your name?”
On this he looked towards a small general store and said, “I want blue Lays first.”
“Tell me your name first.”
“My mom has told me not to tell my name to strangers.” This really made me laugh. How innocent these kids are, this chap wouldn’t tell me his name but would ask me to buy him Lays. It was ironical, but cute in a way. I asked him to at least tell me what he was doing there alone.

He looked at me raising his eye brow and giving me a look that I guess meant “Are you Mad” and said, “Arre Baba, I want Chicken Soup. Do you know where Chicken Soup is?” I finally gave up and gave him a Cadbury I was co-incidentally carrying in my bag. That was a small bribe that I thought would help him speak up. But kids today are getting more corrupted than our politicians; a small dairy milk would not even count as a part of a deal for them. This kid was the same, he ate it all but did not speak a word except for either wanting a Chicken Soup or going to Chicken Soup or somebody named Chicken Soup. I couldn’t guess it till the end.

I asked him what was in his bag. He instantly removed an art book to show me his proud collection of vague scenery drawings and colored lines and shapes. Luckily, that art book had details like his name which was Aditya and his house phone number. Without him knowing, I called on the number and a lady was on line. I asked her if they were Aditya’s parents. This lady, apparently his mother, sounded as if she had cried a lot, her tone was very heavy, and she started bombarding me questions like ,”Who am I?”, “Did I find Aditya”, etc, etc. After I gave her a brief of where and how I found her Aditya, she seemed to have relaxed a little. She said she lived nearby and would come near the gift shop in minutes.

Finally, in some time Aditya’s mother along with his father were there. When his father asked him where did he go from school and that they have been searching him for an hour now, he again replied the same “I wanted go Chicken Soup.”

His father now had a smile on his worried face. His expressions made me feel he knew what Aditya was talking about. Out of curiosity, I asked him what was “Chicken Soup” exactly. He told me that the previous day it was Aditya’s Grandmother’s birthday. She had asked her daughter in law to make Chicken Soup for dinner, but due to some reasons The Chicken Soup was not made. His grandmother did not complaint or get upset over it, but Aditya knew she wanted Chicken Soup on her birthday. Aditya was very attached to his grandmother, as both his parents were working; he was brought up by his grandmother alone. Hence, this kid was wandering around streets for an hour just so that he could bring his grandmother her favorite soup. He just wanted to fulfill her birthday wishes.  

Ignoring all the dangers he could have faced, what he did was a very adorable gesture. I guess this is the relationship every grandchild has with their grandparents. Grandparents are the ones who support us when nobody does, love us and care for us like nobody does and celebrate our births like nobody does. They are our best friends, our guide, our teacher and our inspiration. They are the most cherished, loved and missed relationship for everybody. And a 5 year old did prove it from his stupid yet loving act.


- By Anvi Mehta

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Life Lessons..

Sometimes each one of us go through experiences that help us change the way we look at our life. I guess I was lucky enough to have had such an experience that made me realize my life was so much better then a lot of people around me, it helped me value all I had and showed me what real life problems were. As a normal college student the biggest problem I have faced in my life was a breakup or a bad grade. The day I met her, I saw how easy my life actually was.

I was outside the Pacific Mall waiting for a friend that day. There a small girl came and sat next to me, dressed in a dirty frock with a small torn bag in her hand. She sat there staring at the inside of the glass walls of the mall, glancing at families going in and coming out. I could see her eyes, they had a lot of emotions, they were struck in awe of the mall interiors, they were filled with hopes that maybe someday she will be able to go in, they were also in pain when she saw parents holding their happy and smiling children with big packets probably filled with toys and clothes.

She got me curious and I asked her of what was she doing there alone. She was an 11 year old studying in 6th standard, come there to sell some decorative stickers. On asking her about her parents, she said she lost her father a month back and her mother being a housewife and non educated was hardly able to provide her and her younger brother with two times of food. So everyday after school she had to sell things and raise money for their education.

 I asked her if she wanted to come in the mall with me, she said the guards warned her not to try coming in or she will be sent to the police. I did not know what to say to her. She just smiled at me and pointed towards a Mcdonalds meal poster and said she only dreamt of eating this burger someday. A merely 30/- burger, those were her dreams.

 I had feelings of sympathy, not for her, but for myself. Many times there have been kids asking me for food or money and I have ignored them as if they were just not present. I realised how self indulgant I had got, I guess to make it up for all I had done in the past I got her a burger, and trust me the smile and the happiness on her face after seeing it was something that got tears in my eyes. The satisfaction she had was just worth it.

This "fatherless poor child story" must be heard somewhere by all of us, but the real struggle they go through is something we would never know. They are great examples of inspiration and motivation, teaching us to find happiness in the simplest and the smallest things. All I have learnt is to keep the humanity alive, helping fulfill somebodys dream wont cost much, who knows it may help us getting closer to our dreams.

- By Anvi Mehta

Friday, September 13, 2013

Character mentioned is totally fictitious..:-P

Generally I do not believe in the "Bestfriend" and "BFF" trends so much, I mean having the one and same friend all life is kinna monotonous. But then some fine day, in my case after 20 long years, you find a person who is actually as crazy as you, you have a lot of things in common..likes, dislikes, dreams, fantacies and so much so even the same guy issues. It's like a mirror image of your life. And let me tell you when you get such a person in your life, it is going to get more messy. These are the same people who would encourage you to get bitchy with your "I dont like you so much" list of names. These are the kinds that would take an active participation in doing things like getting in the blacklist of your college, taunt your bf every instance you can, do a "guy hunting" on streets and annoy you in the funniest way possible. But they are also the ones who would reply to your texts when the world is sleeping, console you and say that you are the best(thought thats definately not the truth) and they listen to even the shittiest problems you have. These are the ones who out of the blue wrote a note to you when away, that sort of makes you happy with a tear in the corner of your eye. Such people are tough to find who do not mind if you have any other "bestfriend" in your life (trust me the bestfriend love triangle is the worst one could face..experienced a lot of times.!.) and do not actually start acting like your husband in a few years of your relationship. You have space, love, care, trust..all in all a perfect relationship..
Dont want to praise anymore:-P
And I end this with a few wierd lines..
Boyfriend and bestfriends are lots,
Nobody can match your thoughts, you are there to save me, when in between the crazy salty sea"
Poems written for many around,
But it was cause I was bound,
You are the crime partner I adore,
Yo baby lets get on the dance floor.
I have never written so stupid ever,
But these verses arnt for the arrogant clever,
You and I would surely laugh on this,
Our crazy lame jokes are what I miss..:-P:-P

- By Anvi Mehta

Monday, September 2, 2013

This one is for u..i know both of you having a good time up there..!!

A year back I was a stupid, immature and a stubborn chick who was always surrounded with her petty friends and their life issues. For me,my friends were my priority and loosing somebody in life meant not talking to a mere friend or having a fight with one of them.
Now, I know how naive I was. I had no idea how terrible it was to loose somebody you dearly loved until the day I lost both my heroes. There were no words that could describe the feeling or no amount tears that could quantify the pain. The thoughts that I cannot hear their voice again, calling out my name, sometimes with love and at times to shout at me for one of my frivolities, still haunts me at times. My anger and my frustration is filled with all the pain, the hurt and the guilt. The guilt of not saying them that I loved them. The pain that I could not have that one last hug. The hurt that that there is no hope of seeing them again till I live.
This is what defines loosing someone to me. The ones who held me as a kid, made me stand on my feet and made me feel protected always, are just gone somewhere, maybe nowhere. Loosing somebody, is having a vacuum that cannot ever be filled. It is no longer me leaving some unimportant and random person. It is somebody I love the most leave me even if none of us wanted it to happen.
Every moment I think of what would it be if they were here. How happy would they have been when I passed college? Would they have let me cry when I left home? What would I have bought for them from my first salary? and it goes on...
Every day passing I miss them more, wishing they would be here. But then the only comfort is tgat they had left me with a lot of love and blessings, which has showed me the right way always. People say to me that time would heal things, I would mend their advice a little. Time never heals anything, it just makes you strong enough to face the truth. I would love them and miss them more every time, just instead of the sad memories, I would cherish all those moments I have had with them. I would keep smiling and be strong, not shed a tear and make them proud. For my heroes havent strayed me, I wont ever be afraid cos I know they are watching over me.

- By Anvi Mehta